One of the most difficult things in the dating world is not knowing whether the guy is interested or not quite into you.
Sadly, we fail to see the potential signs when we desperately want something to be true, it can be very easy to convince ourselves that it is.
When you like a guy, there are always going to be little things here and there that you can interpret as signs that the guy likes you back or not.
These are some of the few signs.
1. He never contacts you first.
When we like someone, we all try to play it cool, but most of us tend to fail, whether male or female.
If a guy likes you, he’ll be really keen to talk to you, and contact you whenever he gets time. If he likes you, you’ll be on his mind, and he’ll want to know if he’s on yours.
But if it’s always you who’s making contact first, that’s a sign whilst he enjoys chatting or talking to you, he’s not keen enough to spend time with you.
2. He cancels repeatedly.
If a guy likes you and he is genuinely interested, he will look forward to being with you. If he tells you one excuse after another every time you talk about meeting up, then start to wonder why.
A truly interested guy will find time, or if he cannot make it on a date, he will propose an alternative schedule.
But if he’s cancelling on you repeatedly and not making sure to reschedule for the very next possible opportunity, that’s a clear sign that the guy has lost interest.
3. HE BLOWS HOT AND COLD
The guy’s behavior is inconsistent. One minute he seems super interested in you and is really affectionate, and the next he avoids any physical contact or displays cold body language.
Chances are that the keen moments occur when he’s feeling lonely or insecure, and when he’s back on an even kneel you’ve served your purpose, until the next time his ego needs massaging.
If he’s trying to repeatedly pick you up and drop you, this is a major red flag.
4. He breadcrumbs you.
Bread crumpling is when a person doesn’t really seem to be interested in you, but still wants to have someone around for moments when they need company. They want someone on the back burner.
5. You don’t get his full attention.
When you’re together, the guy avoids eye contact, or his body language is cold and evasive. He’s always got one eye on his phone or is looking over your shoulder at someone else.
Everyone can seem distracted now and again if they’ve got something big going on in their life taking up their head space.
But if they consistently don’t seem to be paying attention or really be in the room when you’re together, it is another sign that the guy is not interested.
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