HOW TO KNOW SHE IS JUST BEING NICE AND NOT INTO YOU

  In many ways a soft rejection is even worse than being straightforwardly shot down.

The reason is that soft rejection is when somebody appears to possibly be into you but is actually just being nice.

If you’ve had a girl do this to you then you know how humiliating and upsetting it is, and the solution is to walk away ASAP.

Here’s how to tell if a girl is only being nice to you by interacting with you and doesn’t actually like you at all. 

If many of these signs are showing up, I’m sorry.

Plain and simple it means that she is not into you regardless of what else she says and does. 

1. SHE DOESN'T INITIATE CONTACT

If for any reason you are the only one initiating contact via text or phone call and even in person, then be very thoughtful. A girl who likes you will do all that it takes to hear from you or see you.

Exceptions? A girl who is very shy, a girl who is not available or a girl who is confused about her feelings for you.

Other than that, if you’re the one always making contact with her via text or in person, she’s only saying hi and being nice because you make the effort, and she doesn’t want to hurt you.

2. SHE EMPHAZISES HER SINGLEHOOD

If you’re getting close to a girl and she’s making a point of letting the world know she’s single, it’s one of those unfortunate signs she’s just being polite and doesn’t really like you.

If she emphasizes being single to you it’s a different story. But when she’s advertising being single, joking about it and mentioning it on social media, to her friends and so on

She’s obviously not that into you. The message is often intended for you as much as for anyone else.

She’s still a free agent and anyone else can currently have a claim on her heart of any kind.

3. SHE DOESN'T WANT TO BE ALONE WITH YOU

If it happens that she will only want to be around you whenever you are in company of others or only when her friends are around, then trust me she's really not into you. Example she turns a potential romantic date into a group get together with friends.

4. SHE DOESN'T CARE AT ALL WHETHER YOU ARE SINGLE OR NOT

Whether you’re single or not, one of the unfortunate signs she’s just being polite and doesn’t really like you is that she just…doesn’t care.

When you don’t have romantic or sexual feelings for someone, you tend to not care that much if they’re single. Because they’re not somebody you want to be with anyway.

 5. SHE RARELY ASK QUESTIONS ABOUT YOU 

Think back to the last time you were really into someone: how curious were you about them?

Chances are you were very curious. You loved finding out what music they like, their beliefs, their hobbies, their best friendships, their future plans.

If a girl is really into you, she’s going to ask you questions.

No matter how shy she is, she will find ways to indicate some interest in who you are and what drives you.

If a girl is not into you, she is not going to ask you questions.

A complete lack of questions and lack of follow up questions spells one simple word:

Bye.

6. SHE SHIES AWAY FROM YOUR TOUCH

One of the top indicators that she’s not digging you beyond the platonic is that any touch and physical intimacy is strictly not happening.

She shies away or even flinches if you pat her on the shoulder or let your touch linger on her hand.

She orients her body directionally away from you, avoids eye contact, laughs nervously and displays the many other signs of minimal attraction.

This is a clear indication that she's not into you. 

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