WHAT KIND OF MAN ARE YOU?

In my counselling experiences over the years, I've learnt that all men are not the same. There are different kinds of men with different character traits they exhibit in their relationships. You may think that some of these character traits are random among men, but they are not. They tell you the kind of men they are and what you are dealing with. Most of you may be familiar with this and to some of you it may not be what you are expecting. 

 

The first kind we will talk about is called the

THE HUNTER

Men who are hunters are attracted by classy women, career women, well to do women and women who are seen in the spotlight. They are attracted by successful women or women who are achievers, outstanding and elegant. Just as a hunter in the field of hunting does not hunt just any animal but only the best, that's exactly how the men who fall under this category are.

The saddest thing about men like this is, they are threatened by the very thing that attracted them to the women they eventually get. The success, achievement, elegance and whatever that attracted them to their woman now becomes a threat to them. They believe that the very thing that attracted them may attract others to their woman.

Just as a hunter in order to captivate or keep what he hunts he breaks it by injuring it or killing it, that is exactly what men under this category does. They shutter the dreams of the women they are with and keep them at a place they deem fit. A husband hunter may force his wife to be a housewife or find another work if he sees her work as a threat.

Husband hunters are mostly abusive, dictators, autocratic, can be very violent, overbearing, tyrannical and deceptive as well.

Women who end up with husband hunters never get to pursue their dreams or ambitions as long as it remains a threat to the husband hunter. 

The next kind is called 

THE SCARVENGER

A man scavenger is never satisfied with the woman he is with. No matter how great, successful, beautiful and all the great attributes of his woman he will always chase after the vulnerable girls. They are the men who prey on women and girls who are struggling to make ends meet, those who are weak and seeking for help.

They see the weakness and helpless nature of these people as an advantage and a means to strike. This could be that poor little house help and that innocent street hawker, etc.  

A typical husband scavenger is that Head teacher preying on that poor little schoolgirl and yet he is with a reputable wife.

That married man preying on that little innocent house help. 

Lastly is the kind called

THE GARDENER

Gardeners on the other hand take their women as they are and become their support system. These men nurture their women, help them grow and multiply in whatever they do. They are very supportive, protective and understanding. They create an atmosphere of growth and improvement.

 Women who end up with these men get a support system that support them to pursue their dreams and aspirations. A much peaceful and enabling home environment.

What kind of a man are you?

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What kind of a man are you with?

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